Jennifer Lopez didn’t want to file for divorce from Ben Affleck but felt cornered: ‘She had no other choice’

After filing for divorce from Ben Affleck in August, Jennifer Lopez is looking ahead with a positive mindset.

A source close to the 55-year-old actress and singer told PEOPLE that, despite the challenges, Lopez is focused on embracing new beginnings and building a bright future.

“This has been one of the hardest years for Jennifer,” the source shared with PEOPLE Magazine.

“She didn’t want to file for divorce but felt she had no choice. Nothing was going to change with Ben.”

The couple, who were married for two years, spent much of the summer apart, leading Lopez to list April 26 as their separation date in her filing.

J-Lo is prioritizing personal growth

Although Lopez was upset by the split, she’s maintaining her trademark resilience.

“She’s moving forward with optimism,” the insider explained.

“Instead of feeling like she’s failed, she believes it was meant to happen.

“Right now, she’s taking time to focus on herself and her well-being.”

Lopez remains grateful for the memories she created with Affleck, but her attention has shifted toward her children and their future.

“She knows she’s fortunate in many ways and cherishes the beautiful moments with Ben, but she’s committed to building the best life for herself and her kids,” the source added.

Despite their separation, Lopez and Affleck are continuing to co-parent their blended family.

On September 14, the former couple was seen having lunch with their children in Los Angeles.

“It makes her happy seeing the kids together,” the source continued.

Lopez shares 16-year-old twins, Emme and Max, with ex-husband Marc Anthony, while Affleck has three children with ex-wife Jennifer Garner: Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12.

Lopez has been keeping busy with her career since the split.

In September, she made an appearance at the Toronto International Film Festival to support her film Unstoppable, which Affleck co-produced alongside Matt Damon.

In addition, Lopez confirmed on September 17 that she will star in the upcoming Netflix romantic comedy Office Romance alongside Ted Lasso actor Brett Goldstein.