EXCLUSIVE: The biggest bedroom lies people tell you

EXCLUSIVE  

One of Australia’s most popular male escorts has used his extensive knowledge of lovemaking to dispel some major bedroom myths. 

Harry Belmont, a Sydney-based sex worker, who hails from the UK, boasts a list of clientele that includes some of Australia’s hottest primetime TV stars. 

In an exclusive interview, the Sexyland ambassador, 34, warned women not to believe everything they hear about sex, and to instead embrace his expert advice. 

‘For too many people, the joy of sex is limited by things we’ve heard about what sex should be like. When you don’t talk, myths become fake truths that you harbour in your head,’ Harry said. 

The first myth is that adult toys don’t make sex better.  

‘Sex toys are great for sex. They’re fun. They enhance pleasure. They change things up,’ the part-time stripper explained. 

‘Toys are not about achieving what a man can’t. They’re about adding to the pleasure of achieving what men can,’ he noted. 

Harry also hit back at the myth that women don’t enjoy sex as much as men, calling this a ‘very dated, stereotypical thought that is based on no facts and is potentially harmful.’ 

‘In my experience, women receive just as much pleasure from sex as men do. This is coming from a male escort. Again, communication, understanding and mutual respect are the key to and foundation for that enjoyment,’ he insisted. 

Harry also shut down the misconception that the term ‘sex’ refers to penetration only, explaining that it actually refers to a range of intimate activities – including the use of adult toys. 

‘Treat sex toys as your friends, not your competition, I’ll often hear, ‘I don’t need a sex toy I’m enough”, he said. 

‘When I hear this, I can almost guarantee that sex toys haven’t even been a topic that’s even come up before and people are uncomfortable talking about them. Don’t be.’ 

Harry also threw cold water on the myth that women usually climax from sex alone. 

‘Sure, they do in movies, porn and erotic books, but this is fiction, not reality,’ he said.

‘It is completely normal for women to need external stimulation. It is nothing that a woman or her partner is doing wrong.’ 

Finally, Harry put to bed the common misconception that condoms reduce sexual pleasure for men. 

‘In my opinion, one of the most widespread myths – Condoms can often actually enhance sexual experience through adding novelty and excitement to sex by using ribbed, dotted or flavoured ones.’ 

‘Shop around for different types and sizes to find which ones work for both you and your partner. Not only this, but knowing that you’re safe from unwanted pregnancy and STIs will reduce anxiety and stress for both parties, both during sex and after.’